MY AFFAIR WITH PASTOR BIODUN FATOYINBO OF COZA. - By Ese Walter

This article contains stories that most ‘church people’ don’t want to address. So, if you are one of those living in denial and covering up crap going on in the church, this is where you should stop reading. Thanks for stopping by.
By Ese Walter: I want to talk about something I have kept bottled up inside for longer than necessary. I have also decided to use real names, as my defense for any accusation of slander is justification. I tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but. However, feel free to throw your doubt around but know that I am past the shaming game (where victims of abuse are shot down by blame) I am no longer a victim but a survivor who is sharing her experience to help others caught in same web of abuse, guilt and shame. We only get to live once right? So here, it goes.

I recently came to know this event too was abuse (recently here means about 6 months ago). It has literally been eating me up having to drive by another billboard advertising preachers, or hearing his name, or even trying to ask about the validity of the entire salvation story and whether or not there is a God that truly watches over his people. That being said, I’m just going to say it as it is. This is a recap of my affair with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA (Common Wealth Of Zion Assembly) Abuja chapter. This affair I have come to know as a form of abuse as you would see the different elements of abuse very present.

I met Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo many years ago. I was getting bored of the church I was attending and someone suggested COZA. At the time, I had never heard about it. My friend said, go there, I’m sure you would enjoy the word. But he also gave me a strong warning. He said he would advice that I remain a member only and not join the workforce. I agreed. The first time I attended COZA, I felt it was my church and decided I was going to plant my ass there. About eleven months had gone by and I was still attending the services quietly and faithfully. I really did like the church. One day a worker in the church approached me that the senior pastor wanted to see me.

US Based Nigerian Journalist, Rilwan Omosun Dying "I Want To Return Home"

A former Sports Editor of defunct Daily Times has hit hard times in the USA and needs assistance. This is his story as posted by his friend Azuka Jebose Molokwu.

In 1990, at the age of 31, I abandoned my job as the sports editor of Nigeria’s first evening daily paper, Evening Times, a subsidiary of THE DAILY TIMES of Nigeria. I relocated to United States to further my education and seek professional excellence with available opportunities in the world’s free press. I arrived Houston Texas, naïve and timid, with no formal training, information or survival guide kit to a migrant’s settlement in America, seeking all things bright and beautiful that “Yankee” had to offer. It’s “God’s own country”. 


I settled into a shared apartment with a cousin willing to accommodate me until I integrated myself into a new lifestyle and culture. Everything functioned here. Everyday, I waited for the right opportunity to be indoctrinated into the American dream life by my cousin. While waiting for the appropriate time, I was privileged a social security number registered in my name. My cousin would come home, fill out some forms and asked me to sign them and import my social security…. I trusted everything he said and unknowingly empowered his criminal and fraudulent empire.

Phones Are Better Than People

You’ve likely already seen I Forgot My Phone, the short film by Charlene deGuzman that dramatizes our dependence on smartphones. It’s pulled in almost 20 million views and counting thanks to that magic social-media formula of saying something everyone pretty much agrees with: we're all hopelessly and pathetically addicted to our devices, which makes us tragically unaware of the fragile beauty of real-life moments passing us by on gossamer butterfly wings of authenticity.

The message at the heart of the film is yet another argument that technology erodes our genuine relationships and makes us stupider and less empathetic. You’ve likely heard a variation of this before—cell phones, or the internet, or computers, or television, are making things worse. As usual, it’s wrong.

Teens Making Bad Decisions/Engaging In Sex Acts At Eminem Concert, Pictures Go Viral [VIEWER DISCRETION ADVISED]

Explicit pictures from an Eminem concert at Slane Castle in Ireland over the weekend have kicked up a huge controversy online. In the photos two boys are shown to be engaging in separate, unrelated sex acts in the middle of the crowded field. As you might expect they quickly went viral. While the identities of the boys in question have not yet been revealed, the internet has been trying to track them down.

The photos are a distressing reminder of the state of contemporary malehood, one in which outward expressions of sexuality are encouraged and celebrated. One has to wonder where the parents of these boys are? It's disgusting that we live in a culture in which young men feel like they have to resort to such attention-seeking stunts in order to be valued by society. The hyper-sexualized music of artists like Eminem has no doubt had a distressing effect on the psychology of children too young to know that they have more to add to the world than just their penises.

Explicit Photos: [VIEWER DISCRETION ADVISED]

PHOTO : MAN BITES OFF GIRLFRIEND'S CLIT WHILE GIVING HER ORAL SEX [VIEWER DISCRETION ADVISED]

The photo below was reportedly taken at the hospital. A US man accidentally bit off his girlfriend's clit*ris while aggressively giving her head.

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Ibadan School Principal’s Corpse Found In Gutter

THE principal of Ijokodo Junior Secondary School 1, Ibadan, Oyo State Mr Segun Dare, was on Wednesday, found dead along the street to his home at Citaga area, Sango-Eleyele road, several hours after he didn’t turn up at home as expected.

Mr Dare, who left home in the evening of the previous day, was discovered face down in a gutter, with his mobile handset in his pocket while a polythene bag containing soup ingredients like fish and pepper was also found beside him.

Police Seal Off New PDP Secretariat [Photos]

The Abubakar Baraje-led PDP has described the closure of its head office in Abuja by the police as the height of impunity.

A statement issued by the National Secretary of the Baraje-led group, Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola said security forces were mobilised to seal off the office on Saturday based on a non-existent court injunction which the Tukur faction claimed to have obtained on Friday.

OKOROCHA : A POLITICAL OPPORTUNIST BUT I LIKE HIS AUDACITY - By Onyema Uche

They are rogues. They are selfish opportunists. They stole and still stealing from us. All they did was promise and promise all the time. Yes you are right, call them thieves again.

Governor Okorocha, is a political opportunist. He does not have the interest of Ndigbo at heart. He has made a lot of false promises. So what? He is working his way to the top to be the first Igbo executive president in Nigeria. If he is a qualified criminal with all the credentials of shrewdness as Nigeria wants, then let him ride on. This man has changed the face of Owerri urban. He is the first governor after Mbakwe to bring development to rural areas in Imo state even though he neglects Mbaise. I must give it to him, he has done tremendously well. If Evans Enwerem, Achike Udenwa, and Ohakim did just 1/10 of what Okorocha is doing in Imo state now, our state would have progressed more.

Governor Okorocha no doubt has his flaws but I am beginning to like his audacity. Yes dear governor continue to rule and ruin us. It does not matter any more if you sold Owerri to Muslims to achieve your presidential ambitions. I am with you. Just do not relent, do not mind your detractors. Just become the president and every sin will be forgiven. One only needs to take a ride and see the roads in Imo state, the rehabilitated Concord hotel, even the federal roads in owerri that used to be death traps have been renovated. The most outstanding is the Owerri Umuahia federal road. I wish the same is true in Abia state.

Waitress Accused Of Forcing A Man At Gunpoint To Have Sex With Her Friend After Offering Him A Ride Home

A fast food waitress from suburban Chicago has been charged with sexual assault on a man, who told police that the 25-year-old had forced him to have sex with her friend in the backseat of a car after offering him a ride.

Cierra Ross, a mother of two from Olympia Fields, was arrested Tuesday for her part in the alleged rape of a 33-year-old man July 26.

According to police, the victim was walking in the 400 block of North Kingsbury when Miss Ross pulled up next op him and offered him a lift home.

A short time later, the Denny's waitress allegedly pulled a revolver on him, ordering him to climb into the backseat and take off his clothes.

Assistant Cook County State’s Attorney Amanda Pillsbury told The Chicago Sun-Times that Ross then forced the 33-year-old  at gunpoint to have sex with her friend.

In the course of the encounter, the man was allegedly instructed to fondle the woman’s breasts and buttocks.

The two female suspects also allegedly robbed their victim, getting away with $200 in cash, credit cards and an iPhone.  

The unnamed man reportedly begged his assailants to stop, but was eventually able to escape from the car, running down the street naked from the waist down.

The 33-year-old spotted a taxi nearby and asked for the driver's help. The Good Samaritan agreed to let him use his cell phone to snap a picture of Ross' license plate and email it to himself. 

Why I Raped Six Year Old Girl –43 yr Old Grandpa •Why We Love To Defile Minors —Suspects

Sanmi Oyewole, a 43-year-old farmer and grandfather arrested by the Ogun State police command for defiling a six-year-old girl claimed that he defiled his victim because he was overwhelmed by his sexual urge. He denied that his action had any spiritual undertone, but that he did it just to “catch fun.”

The incident happened last Saturday at Ayedi Street, Isale-Ake, Abeokuta, the Ogun State capital, in the Abeokuta South Local Government Area.

“I did not know that what I did with her was bad at the time, until I was done with her and she started crying. I realised my stupidity immediately and I felt bad about it,” he said.

The suspect said he lured the girl, one of his neighbour’s children, with a N50 note, took her into his room in the same compound, and forcefully had carnal knowledge of her when her mother was away.

Oyewole said the girl had no features that could attract him to her, but just happened to be the only available person he could have sex with when he could not control his sexual urge.

Obasanjo, IBB, Anenih Meet Tukur, Baraje Groups •Factions, Govs Table Grievances •Crisis ’ll Be Over Soon - Obasanjo

ELDERS panel of the ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), led by former President Olusegun Obasanjo, on Friday met the warring groups within the party, with each presenting its grievances before the panel.

The elders met the two factions within the Governors’ Forum as well as the Bamanga Tukur and Abubakar Baraje factions of the party. Each of the groups reportedly took turns to present its grievances.

Each of the groups had earlier held their separate caucus meetings before the presentation before the elders. It was learnt that the Tukur group had a marathon meeting at the State House, while the Baraje group were said to have also met first at Alhaji Atiku Abubakar’s residence and later in an undisclosed Governors’s Lodge in Asokoro.

Late political legend, MKO Abiola's daughter Folashade Abiola, a legal practitioner with US Treasury on August 31 and September 1, 2013 walked down the aisle with her husband, Serdan Banjac, a worker in US Senate. The wedding held in Houston, Texas.

We Want To Stop PDP From Collapsing - Obasanjo

Via - SaharaReporters, New York

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo and some elders of the Peoples Democratic Party met with factional leaders of the party and some aggrieved governors yesterday in Abuja.

They also met with the some pro-Jonathan governors at the meeting, the meeting held at a five star hotel in Abuja.

Those at the meeting include former president Olusegun Obasanjo, former military dictator, Gen. Ibrahim Babangida (retd.); former chairmen of the party, Ahmed Ali and Sen. Barnabas Gemade respectively and chairman Board of Trustees of the party, Chief Tony Anenih. State governors present include, Gov. Aliyu Wamakko(Sokoto), Gov. Sule Lamido (Jigawa), Rotimi Amaechi (Rivers) and others.

Whale Carcasses Wash Up On Ghana Beach

People check a dead whale on September 5, 2013 in Kokrobite, a coastal village just outside Accra. Five whales have washed ashore within the space of three days in Ghana.

Five whale carcasses have washed up on Ghana's coast in the last week, officials said Thursday, vowing to probe the reportedly unprecedented string of marine deaths in the area.

Speculation has circulated widely in local media that Ghana's offshore oil installations are to blame, but an environment group and Ghana's Fisheries Commission said there was no available evidence to support such theories.

According to the fisheries commission regional officer Emmanuel Ohene Marfo, they are "sending a team to investigate what is going on because it's not normal".

Lagos Commissioner, Opeifa Disgraced By Activists As He Strayed Into Gani Fawehinmi Memorial Event (Video)

Lagos Commissioner for Public Transportation Mr. Kayode Opeifa, got more than he bargained for as he strayed into Gani Fawehinmi 'Night of Tributes' occasion organized to commemorate the late radical lawyer and advocate for the masses, Chief Gani Fawehinmi in Lagos. The 'Night of Tributes And Socials', attended by left-wing activists including Femi Aborishade, Lanre Legacy, Okei-Odumakin as well as members of Civil Society Organizations and the National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS) was the second event for the day after a morning lecture in which Prof. Omotoye Olorode lashed out on Minister of Economy Mrs. Okonjo-Iweala, the Goodluck Jonathan-led government and the entire PDP.

The Most Amazing Engineer: A Tribute To The Human Spirit And Human Ingenuity Of Not Accepting That Something Can't Be Done.

My hats off to Richie for taking on life with such a positive attitude and to the people around him for having confidence in him. Hendrick Motorsports needs a big congrats also for employing him to make his dream come true.
you are not en engineer because you have hands, you're an engineer because of your brains and creativity, his lifes challenge made means he has to be creative, thats what made him an engineer. tip my hat to this guy

This Is Why You Cant Use Your Phone On A Plane

Explanation: Never mind what the chatterbox in the seat next to you says about cell phones messing with plane navigation — those metallic birds are built airtight against foreign signals and operate on entirely different frequencies than cell phones.
So why all the fuss about phones? When you make a call at 10,000 feet, the signal bounces off multiple available cell towers, rather than one at a time. That means too many phone-happy jetsetters might clog up the networks on the ground, which is why the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) — not the Federal Aviation Association (FAA) — banned cell use on planes.

If you're just dying to bust out your BlackBerry mid-flight, go international. Some airlines in Europe, the Middle East and Asia now allow cell phone use in planes, but don't hold your breath for the FCC to follow suit.

VIDEO: Negative Effects of Technology on Human Life.

“I fear the day technology will surpass our human interaction. The world will have a generation of idiots.” -Albert Einstein.

ALIKO MOHAMMED DANGOTE, World's Richest Black.

Via - Abiyamo.com 

Some weeks ago, I was telling my friends that if you give Aliko Dangote, the most successful black businessman on earth about eight more years, he will become the richest man in the world. Then the argument started. Hmmm…you needed to be there! Fingers were pointing furiously and some eyeballs were almost plucked out of their sockets. Veins pulsated and muscles twitched like mad. We raised the tempo of the noise and almost brought down the roof. As we sweated it out, one of my friends was shouting vociferously (if you dey read this, you know sey I know kuku send una na…lol!) that it was impossible, that ‘do I know what it means to be the richest man on earth’ bla bla, with all the plenty grammar! Thank God sey our Landlord no dey house that day, e for purshoe (make I toosh am na) us comot for hin house, and maybe we for go carry our palis apply for Dangote company to be ‘superdrivers’ and use hin cement truck for bedrooms.