Tuesday 11 October 2016

Trio Of Women Celebrates Inspiring 100 Years Of Life And Friendship

Pictured from left to right: Leona Barnes, Ruth Hammett, Gladys Butler and Bernice Underwood. This image was taken before Barnes passed away.
All childhood friends know how fun it is to recount the stories and misadventures of their youth.
But for Bernice Underwood, Gladys Butler and Ruth Hammett, the memories — while no longer so vivid — are far more numerous: They've known each other for the better part of 100 years.
Last month, the trio marked turning 100 together — and their nearly century-long friendship — with a church service and celebration at the 152-year-old Washington, D.C., church where they've worshiped since they were children.

Bernice Underwood (far left) at the 30th wedding anniversary celebration of Leona Barnes (third from the right) and her husband, Turner Barnes. Leona Barnes passed away May 21 and would have been 100 on July 18.
"What was the most moving for me was to see the spark and twinkle in their eyes," Arlene Holt Baker, one of the coordinators of the event at Zion Baptist Church, told TODAY.
"I heard them say, 'This is one of the best things that's ever happened to us.'"
Butler, Hammett, Underwood and a fourth friend, Leona Barnes — who nearly made it to 100 but died in May, two months shy of her birthday — were all born in southwest Washington in 1916. (The story of their friendship and birthday celebration was first reported by The Washington Post.)
As girls, their addresses were “around the corner” from each other, Baker said. At one point, Butler's and Barnes’ families even ended up living together to make ends meet.
But what really brought them together was their connection to Zion Baptist Church, founded in 1864 and one of the oldest black churches in the city.
"They reminisce about the wonderful maypole the church had, the one they'd dance around as children,” Baker said.
In getting to know the women, Baker said it was clear how their different personalities balanced each other out.

Hammett, for instance, is the quiet one.

Though she now has dementia, "You could just see the gentleness, the wonderful spirit shining through, and you could know that that was who she's been her whole life,” Baker said.

She called Barnes “the most vivid, the most vibrant,” who could make the rest of her friends double over with laughter.

"The other women told me she was the 'keeper of all their memories,’” Baker said.

Underwood was and remains glamorous and elegant, “like she’s walking down a runway.”

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