He
is a perfect symbolism of the acclaimed 'can do' Nigerian spirit. His
life is a testimony of the basic principle of life that with
determination, man can achieve anything. His life story embodies the
maxim that nothing is impossible for the willing heart. All these
virtues, and many more, cooperated together to make the life of Oba
Sunday Ajiboye, a lawyer-turned-first class king, the Onisan of Isan
Kingdom in Oye Local Government Area of Ekiti State, sparkle like
diamond. An award winning author, the royal father stood tall recently
as President Goodluck Jonathan bestowed him with the national award of
Member of the Federal Republic, MFR.
A classical
zero-to-hero story, Oba Ajiboye, as a child, had a long-running battle
with poverty and a terrible sickness that stunted his growth and almost
deformed him, threatening his future. Although many were the childhood
afflictions of the royal father, he overcame them all. After becoming
Oba, he had to endure school life to bag his Master's degrees and later
qualify as a lawyer. He never allowed royalty to jeopardize his
childhood desire of becoming a lawyer. Now, he wants to surpass his own
expectation, and raise the bar for himself. "I want to have a PhD in
Law," he tells ICON when asked his yet-to-be fulfilled ambition.
Born close
to 60 years ago, the monarch, as a young boy, had to stop his education
after his elementary school which he started in Ikere-Ekiti, rounding it
up at his homestead, Isan-Ekiti, also the home town of the state's
governor, Dr. Kayode Fayemi.
Since his
poor parents could not afford the meager fees required for his secondary
education, he dropped out and reverted to the farm for a period of
time. When the fortunes of the family picked up a little, he returned to
school, Ajayi Memorial Modern School, Ayede-Ekiti, near his town. He
worked for a brief period before proceeding to Ekiti Divisional Teachers
Training College, Ikere, "which was free, being under the Universal
Primary Education Programme (of the ruling Unity Party of Nigeria, UPN,
in the old Western Region)." And because trainee-teachers were also
being paid N80 monthly at the time, he was able to save enough money to
enroll for his General Certificate of Education, GCE.
After
scaling that hurdle, he taught for three years in a secondary school
before proceeding to the College of Education, Ilorin, Kwara State, for
his National Certificate of Education, NCE, in English and Fine Art. "I
taught for a while after this before I proceeded to the University of
Ilorin to study English Language/ Educational Technology," Oba Ajiboye
says. "I was already on the throne when I went to the then Obafemi
Awolowo University in Ile-Ife for my Master's Degree in Education
Administration and Planning.
"I put my
crown in the palace, with all the paraphernalia of office, to pursue my
Master's Degree programme at Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife. After
my Master's Degree, I started pursuing my PhD but having been faced with
local politics in the university among the lecturers, I had to leave.
Despite my chain of degrees, I had no job satisfaction because it
appears I had not reached my destination."
In 1999, he
enrolled for Law at the University of Ado-Ekiti, now Ekiti State
University. That initial attempt ran into a brick wall. But after
concluding all registration procedure, he was told pointblank that he
could not continue.
"I was
screened out as having not qualified to read law," he says. "Professor
Akin Oyebode just said 'Kabiyesi, I've seen and admire all your series
of degrees. But, I'm sorry, this faculty cannot admit you to read law
because you are deficient in mathematics. You didn't pass mathematics
and mathematics is a prerequisite for any intending student who wants to
read law in this faculty.' That was how he quietly returned my
credentials to me and said 'bye-bye, good luck.'
"In all, we
were 12 that were turned back. The remaining 11 decided to go to court
but I refused to go to court even though I felt cheated because
mathematics was not advertised as a pre-requisite when the form was
being sold. Even mathematics was not specified as a prerequisite in the
JAMB Brochure. I decided not to go to court because since he is the
Vice-Chancellor of the University, and the founding father of the
Faculty of Law, he knows best.
"In 2000,
with all degrees, I went back to write my mathematics O/level. One funny
thing about the whole episode is that, eight of those teachers who
supervised me when I was writing that O/Level exam were my students at
University of Nigeria, Nsukka, Ikere Campus. I can't forget that. They
were taken aback when they saw me. Some wondered why, with my
personality, I was sitting with them to write O/level mathematics while
some others were saying that 'could this mean that this Kabiyesi (his
majesty) was not qualified to teach us, or what?
"In fact,
one Mrs. Olayisade from WAEC, whose husband was also working in WAEC
office in Akure, said 'Baba why don't you leave the rest of the exam for
your children?' But immediately she recognized who I was, she knelt
down, right there in the exam hall. Every candidate writing the exam
started looking at her. So, after finishing that examination, all the
teachers converged to greet me, to extol my determination. To God be the
glory, when the result came out, I passed brilliantly.
"So, I my
mathematics and other papers back to Professor Akin Oyebode to show that
I had passed the deficient paper. He shook my hand and said, 'this is
the type of person I am looking for in this University.' So, I was
offered admission to study Law. I read Law and passed with second Class
Lower. I went to Law School and eventually I was called to bar. Still, I
wasn't satisfied with LLB, BL, so, I pursued LLM. Again, to God be the
glory, I have finished my LLM (laughs)."
Moral? Never say 'never'! And when there is a will, there is a way.
"Once you
are determined in life," the royal father enthuses, "there is nothing
you will not be able to achieve. When there is a strong will to achieve,
the sky will not be the limit, it will be your stating point. I believe
in honest hard work. I teach my children the virtues of honesty and
hard work. I used to tell them that if, for instance, I want to read
medicine now, I can go back to JSS 3 and pick-up all the sciences and
still go back to read medicine. There is no age limit. This is what I
keep telling them. Education is what you acquire from the day you came
into this world till the day you say bye-bye to this world. It is a
continuous exercise. I am still planning to go for PhD in Law. Now, I am
a student of the National Open University of Nigeria, NOUN, undertaking
a M.Sc. programme in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution"
Oba Ajiboye is not done. He shares more life experiences with this correspondent.
Childhood experience
He continues by adding up all his childhood experiences together, concluding, "I am a child of destiny."
"I am the
fifth child of my mother," he recounts. "All those children that were
born before me died. My mother told me that for four years I was unable
to talk, unable to speak, unable to crawl and unable to speak. Neither
did I walk for good four years. I was crawling like snake when they were
battling with this problem. They didn't even think of having another
child, especially my mother. Although at a point, they had to abandon
me, and put me into the latrine and lock the door so that they could
have the opportunity of having another child. But my mother refused.
They won't do it. It was the father our present Governor, the late Pa F.
Fayemi, that really rescued me.
"My mother
also went to him at Iwo in Osun State for help. He helped a lot. It was
him that sponsored me because as at that time, my father insisted that
he couldn't spend a dime on me again. So, the late Pa F. Fayemi took me
to a Catholic Hospital in Iwo then, and told me it was one Dr. Scott
that diagnosed me and discovered what was affecting me. I was operated
perfectly and it was this man (Pa Fayemi) that paid the hospital bill
and my mother was with me until the operation healed up. I could
perfectly remember a day when my mother did not have palm oil to cook
soup. It was shear butter ('ori' in Yoruba language) that was used. She
also boiled cow blood and used it as meat. So, I did not enjoy life when
I was young, but God who created me knew what I would become in life,
that's why he preserved me. I didn't dream of becoming an Oba then but
everything has been pre-destined."
As an Oba, a
lawyer, and a person with degrees in others fields, how does he see his
national award? I ask the unassuming and amiable monarch. His reply
comes automatically. "Well, I thank God," he says. "Some people use to
say, 'as an Oba and a lawyer, do you want to go to court to practise or
you are just wasting your time?' But I say, there is utility in all
these things.
"When you
have the intellectual power, wherever you find yourself you will be
useful. For instance, I have not been found wanting among my friends. I
have been able to represent the state at both national and international
levels. Because of that utility, I have been appointed into many
committees to represent the state, the traditional council and other
groups. Therefore, the award is the Lord's doing. And I must thank God
they said this award was given to me due to my contributions towards the
upliftment of Nigeria, my state and my community."
How many are in Kaiyesi's harem?
"I'm a
traditional man as you know," he says. "That is one area of my private
life that I cannot discus publicly. I have Oloris and I have children,
but I can't tell you the number."
What about his social life? How does he wind down? Does he belong to any social club?
His words:
"As I told you earlier on, I came from a poor family. So, the idea of
going to social functions was not just there, because I was then married
to my father's farm. Again, the curriculum of teachers training college
would not allow these social activities. And (on-campus) political
activities were not in the teachers training curriculum. So, for you to
bring in all these things, you have to work extra hard to be on the best
track of teachers training. So, I had little or no opportunity to join
any social club."
As an Oba, who was also a student, how did he find campus life?
"After my
enthronement," he says, "I left for Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife,
for my post graduate studies. And as a first class Oba, I was anxious
to attain the peak academically. So, I decided to hide myself. Onisan
has, from ancient days, been one of the 16 paramount rulers in Ekiti. I
was not just promoted. No. I decided to help myself. I was given a room
at the post graduate hall, but I wouldn't know how Baba (Oba Sijuade,
the Ooni of Ife) got to know. Anyway, the Ooni of Ife got to know that I
was there and he sent for the Vice Chancellor, and told him that there
was an August visitor in his school. That there was one important and
highly placed Kabiyesi. So, the VC had to look for me.
"So, I was going to fetch water from a story building down, lifting
buckets
with my shorts, I didn't allow anybody to follow me because I felt this
was what I should be doing. It's supposed to be part of my training. So,
I got to the room, the VC knocked the door and said they were looking
for the occupant of the room. I said 'hope there is no problem?' And he
said they were looking for the Kabiyesi living in this room. I pretended
as if I didn't know what they were saying. But I couldn't hold it for
to long. I buckled and I asked: 'what can I do for you?'
The VC was
prostrating as he said: Ha Kabiyesi, the Onisan! He actually prostrated,
saying: Kabiyesi. He became worried. He said: how could Ibe doing this?
I had white singlet on, and white cap on my head. And I said well,
since I am here to read, I must bury my pride. I must put all the
paraphernalia of the office of the first class Oba somewhere in the
palace so I could concentrate on what I am here for: a serious academic
endeavour. That is it. So, he said Baba wanted to see me, and he would
want to take me to Baba's office. I said 'no problem'. So, we went to
Baba; and when I saw him, Baba embraced me. He was genuinely concerned.
He asked if he could relocate me to a comfortable place. With all
respect and humility, I said I was comfortable where I was; that I would
be coming to greet him. So, I went back to my hostel. I kept myself
seriously busy there, reading day and night, to ensure that I succeeded
in what I went for. That's it.
Now when I
went to the University of Ado-Ekiti, now Ekiti State University, to read
Law, the course was very, very difficult. I found Law somewhat
difficult, so I had to double my efforts, reading round the clock. So,
that is what I was faced.
Law School
was a different ball game. I have one or two problems when I went to Law
School. Why? It is forbidden for me to open my head. In Law School, you
must open your head. You must put on your tie. You must wear your shirt
and every other thing. When you are called to Bar, you must put on your
wig. So, for two or three days, I was not allowed for lectures. And
when you are in Law School you have very limited number of days that you
can be absent before you can be allowed to write the exam. If you are
absent more than 20 days in a year, you will not be permitted to write
the exam. Whenever you are going for lecture 8:00a.m., you will sign in.
Whenever you are coming out 4:00p.m., you sign out. And the daily
register is always kept with the officers, and it goes on and on like
that. And you cannot beg anybody to help you sign because they will
continue to verify your signature.
So, it was
this Director-General, Chief Abayomi, that helped me so they allowed me.
So, I was only person that was allowed to put anything on his head. So,
all my fellow students, more than 3,000 of them, whenever I was coming
in, they got to know me as an Oba.
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