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Thursday 19 September 2013

Reasons Why Females Should Watch More Porn


It’s no secret that men watch more pòrn than women – for women to admit to experiencing pleasure in watching pòrnography means having to overcome the stereotypes about female sèxuality: generations of women have been told that pòrn is evil, that it exploits, objectifies and degrades women, and that any woman who enjoys pòrn is a betrayer of the female gender.
While there are still plenty of women who feel uncomfortable with pòrn, there are also plenty of women who beg to disagree and look at pòrn as a form of erotic escapism that should not be considered such a big deal.
It’s a prejudice to say that women don’t like pòrn, it’s more correct to assume that women don’t enjoy the mainstream pòrn that is made to appeal to male viewers.
However, with the recent emergence of pòrn sites that is geared towards females, pòrn that is made by and for women that focuses on female pleasure, I hope this imbalance is about to change because women need to realize all the benefits that pòrn watching can have on their lives.
I’m a huge pòrn advocate, in fact, I religiously watch pòrn every day – yes, I actually carve out time in my daily schedule to dedicate to pòrn. Why? Not only has it been great for my sèx life, but it’s also made me more aware of my sèxuality.

Get Know Yourself
Men màsturbàtè regularly. Maybe once a day, maybe more often – but it’s no secret that all men màsturbàtè. There is no shame associated with it and the majority of men are quite open about it. In contrast, women don’t speak about màsturbàting. Ever. You never call up your girlfriend and be like “Oh hey! What am I doing? Oh, just watching some pòrn and màsturbàting. You?”
Why is màsturbàting such a taboo for women? We should embrace màsturbàtion and celebrate it. How else will you know what you like unless you explore yourself? Remember that episode in “SATC” when Charlotte revealed how she has never looked at her pussy with a hand mirror?
I mean, I wasn’t surprise because Charlotte was the type to not use a tampon in case she lost her vìrginity, but I am sure there are women out there who have never been up close and personal with their own vàgina.
Guys never hesitate to give you pointers when you suck their cock – you know why? Because they jerk off enough to know what they like. Next time some guy is going down on you, wouldn’t it save you both time for you to be able to tell him what gets you off?
Learn What You Like
Most of us have grown up with vanilla sèx. I will bet that your first time was in the missionary position, and the most exciting thing that you have attempted sèxually was the reverse cowgirl. Watching pòrn opens up a whole new world of sèx and sèxual adventures – anal, threesomes, gangbangs – just to name a few.

Without the magic of porn, how will you know that it’s possible for you to have two cocks in you at one time? It was through my frequent porn watching that I discovered my S&M fetish – WAY before “Fifty Shades of Grey” came out.
Without porn, I would have sadly spent all these years never experiencing the pleasure/pain of being whipped, the anticipation of getting tied up or the excruciating pleasure of nipple clamps.
New Tricks
My Husband would like to thank porn for all the new tricks I’ve picked up. porn is not only enjoyable, it’s also educational! Unlike men, we women can multitask, so while you’re watching porn and masturbating, it isn’t too difficult to focus and note down some of the tips and tricks from pornstars. Think you can’t deep throat? Think again. My motto is: if pornstars can do it, so can I.
Get in the mood
porn is great for those nights when you’re really not feeling up for sex, but you know that your boyfriend is either going to get it from you or from that whore he’s been texting. Women often use the excuse of not being “in the mood” – fortunately, you can get yourself in the mood very easily by watching a few minutes of porn.
Your guy will love it because not only does he get laid, but he also doesn’t have to invest too much time in foreplay because you’ll be ready to go.
Ladies – never be ashamed of watching pòrn – women should be able to enjoy pòrn with less guilt and not worry so much about what others will think. If you’re worried about what your man’s opinion? In my experience, the majority of men are intrigued and even turned on by the idea of women watching pòrn.
I’m sure no man will ever be angry at you if you’re late for a date and use the excuse “Oh sorry, I was watching porn and masturbating.”

7 Reasons Watching Porn Isn’t A Bad Thing



It Allows You To Explore Your Sexuality

Obviously, as you're growing up, it's really important to figure out your sexuality - to learn what you like, what you don't like, who you like, etc. The only way to do that is to experiment with other people or to do things like watch porn. Watching porn might make you feel more comfortable about what you like and can definitely help you figure out what you want out of sex.

It's Fun And Can Make You Feel Good

Let's face it: the simple reason most of us watch porn is to get off. What do you do when you watch porn? You masturbate (usually). Masturbation is fun and it feels good. There's nothing wrong with that! Sometimes, we need a little extra something to kick start ourselves and porn can be just that extra something. It can be especially helpful if you're in a bit of a sexual rut.

Porn Can Relax You

Like I said, watching porn usually leads to masturbation... and a successful masturbation sesh leads to feeling happy, relaxed, sleepy and calm. It can make you feel less stressed and anxious. So, if you say that porn leads to masturbation and masturbation leads to feeling relaxed, you can say that porn leads to feeling relaxed, right? Right. And with school starting, I'm sure we can all use that once in a while.

It Can Teach You New Things

Of course, it's important to remember that porn isn't always the best representation of reality - after all, these are actors and actresses who are getting paid to do this on camera. But still, watching porn can teach you new sex moves or positions that you never knew about before. You certainly don't need to try everything you see, but if something looks exciting to you, try it out on your own time! Sometimes the best way to learn new things is to see them in action.

Porn Allows You To Explore Secret Fantasies

There are millions of different kinds of porn out there. I'm pretty confident that there is a kind of porn out there that caters to your secret sexual fantasies. We all have them and a lot of us never express these fantasies because we feel too embarrassed. But with porn, it's easy to explore these fantasies because it's something you're doing in private. No one will judge you or know what you're doing. You don't need to hold back with porn.
It Might Make You Feel More Comfortable With Your BF Watching It

Watching It With Your Boo Can Spice Up Your Relationship

Speaking of your boyfriend, try watching porn with him sometime! It might take a little getting used to, but watching porn with your significant other can definitely help spice up your sex life. It can give you both new ideas and it can also allow you both to learn more about each other. Did I mention that it's fun and can turn you both on pretty quickly? Think about it!

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