Why You’re Still Single

You’re Standards Are Wacked

Don’t you think after a certain age you should give up on the concept of finding prince charming? I’ve met so many chicks who think relationships should be perfect.  Here’s a reality check – dudes aren’t perfect and relationships are messy.  Start having realistic expectations about people and you might find the right match.

You Work Too Much

Being career oriented is great but if you wanna have kids you should start thinking about making time for a guy.  Most workaholic women are control freaks so make a list and schedule some time to meet a mate.

You’re Desperate

We can smell desperate and it’s a turn off.  Desperate women are the last thing a guy wants cause we think you’re dating us as a last resort.  It also makes us think you might be bat shit crazy.  If you’re desperate, start playing it cool.

You’re a Pain in the Ass

I hate drama.  I have to deal with enough bs at work, the last thing I want is to deal with it at home too.  A girl who is an emotional roller coaster and always crying wolf gets dumped – fast.

You’re Dating Too Many Guys…

and bragging about it.  A lot of women who use online dating use the whole the more eggs you put in a basket theory and date a bunch of guys. To us, it makes you look easy or desperate.  If you’re dating more than 1 guy but don’t shove it in my face.  You might be trying to make me jealous but all it really does is make me leave.

You’re Easy

Don’t sleep with a guy on the first date.  It’s dumb.  The odds of him calling are better if you don’t give it up right away.  If I like you and we have sex, I’ll call.  If I’m not sure if I like you and we have sex, I probably won’t call cause I’m not sure if I really like you and I already banged you.  Makes sense?  Annabelle wrote a good column on this.  Read it:  When to have sex while online dating.

You’re Overly Emotional

Stop crying!  I know girls cry more than guys but some girls cry at everything.  If you’re one of those girls, figure out what your problem is and get over it.  Girls who cry all the time are exhausting and it makes you look crazy.

You’re Insecure

If you need my constant reassurance that you’re awesome and making the right decision I start to wonder what’s wrong.  Insecure girls make me wonder if they want a boyfriend or a daddy.

You Don’t Pay Attention To Your Looks

If you’re single and don’t want to be, don’t leave the house looking like a pile of crap.  Guys are visual and when we ask you out, it’s cause we’re attracted to you.  We get into relationships because of your personality but we’ll never get to know your personality if we don’t ask you out in the first place cause we’re not attracted to you.
You Haven’t Met the Right Person
Sometimes the reason you’re single has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the fact that it’s not your time yet.  Remember that statistics are in your favor and the next best thing might be right around the corner.
Want More?  Stop in tomorrow when Annabelle helps a High School Reader figure out if her crush is flirting or really likes her…